Romance in your marriage is a two-way street. If you are trying to revive some romance in your marriage, let your wife know what you are trying to do and enjoy the creative process together.

It is important to know your partner well enough to know whether your changed behavior will be a pleasant surprise OR just perceived as odd or unusual behavior.

Take pictures of yourself, or have a friend help you take the pictures. You can get silly and take pictures in funny poses or clothes, or you can be very romantic and seductive in the shots and take the pictures at romantic locations you’ve visited or even holding a magazine or picture of a place you both think is romantic.

Then slip these pictures into the places and things that touch your wife's life, such as the refrigerator, her purse, a drawer in her bedroom bureau, under a paperweight, under a magnet on the refrigerator, in a cupboard inside her favorite coffee cup.

You certainly don’t want to FORCE your wife to do anything she does not want to do! And, if you are really trying to put romance in your life and IF you are sensitive to your wife's preferences and desires, you should have no problem convincing her that you will both enjoy this process.