Romance in your marriage is a two-way street. If you are trying to revive some romance in your marriage, let your wife know what you are trying to do and enjoy the creative process together.

It is important to know your partner well enough to know whether your changed behavior will be a pleasant surprise OR just perceived as odd or unusual behavior.

Make a poster out of poster board and decorate it with hearts, and other images your wife loves. Then, every time you come home from work or a business trip, add another message to her on the poster.

Date the message and draw a little heart or picture. That way, your wife will be able to look at the poster and see the history of your love written right before her eyes.

You certainly don’t want to FORCE your wife to do anything she does not want to do! And, if you are really trying to put romance in your life and IF you are sensitive to your wife's preferences and desires, you should have no problem convincing her that you will both enjoy this process.