Romance in your marriage is a two-way street. If you are trying to revive some romance in your marriage, let your wife know what you are trying to do and enjoy the creative process together.

It is important to know your partner well enough to know whether your changed behavior will be a pleasant surprise OR just perceived as odd or unusual behavior.

Give your wife a video recording your thoughts of her for every day. Tape yourself with little messages for every day. It will only take a few minutes to do and your wife can watch one per day until you get home.

When you film yourself, you can separate the messages by writing numbers on a piece of paper and hold the paper up in front of your face for each day.

You certainly don’t want to FORCE your wife to do anything she does not want to do! And, if you are really trying to put romance in your life and IF you are sensitive to your wife's preferences and desires, you should have no problem convincing her that you will both enjoy this process.