Romance in your marriage is a two-way street. If you are trying to revive some romance in your marriage, let your wife know what you are trying to do and enjoy the creative process together.

It is important to know your partner well enough to know whether your changed behavior will be a pleasant surprise OR just perceived as odd or unusual behavior.

Send your wife an email every day using a different color background or a different font, and maybe inserting a JPG or other electronic picture of you or some location or scene you think your wife would like, or a picture of a city you visited together.

Whatever you know she would enjoy seeing. In every email, send a different message to her with a romantic remembrance.

You certainly don’t want to FORCE your wife to do anything she does not want to do! And, if you are really trying to put romance in your life and IF you are sensitive to your wife's preferences and desires, you should have no problem convincing her that you will both enjoy this process.