Romance in your marriage is a two-way street. If you are trying to revive some romance in your marriage, let your wife know what you are trying to do and enjoy the creative process together.

It is important to know your partner well enough to know whether your changed behavior will be a pleasant surprise OR just perceived as odd or unusual behavior.

Send flowers or a card or something else you know will please your wife at her office or where she may volunteer. Many women like to receive gifts and mementos at work. They want to keep the object there to remind them of you when they don’t get to see you all the time.

Women love to show their co-workers that their spouse is thoughtful and thinking of them. That will make you be alll the more precious to her because you made her look good in front of her coworkers and friends.

You certainly don’t want to FORCE your wife to do anything she does not want to do! And, if you are really trying to put romance in your life and IF you are sensitive to your wife's preferences and desires, you should have no problem convincing her that you will both enjoy this process.